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Jolyn L ||
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How long is too long? How much is too much? When do you lose hope? When you give up? When do you know it’s time to leave things or people behind?
There’s never an easy way to just walk away from the thing or person you want the most, especially if you want to stay, yet you know it in your bones it’s the right thing to do - not just for them, but for yourself.
We are taught to be kind to others, but we have never learned how to be kind to ourselves. Walking away from toxicity is the nicest thing you can do for yourself.
(Source: thepersonalquotes, via wolftribe)
Little Mister Roo,
Reaching for the moon,
Don’t grow up too fast,
Too soon.- Pooh’s Heffalump Movie (2005)
“Sometimes you meet someone, and it just clicks, like all the rusty old machine parts suddenly start working. It is as if you are meant to meet this person, listen to their stories, and take a piece of them with you to your next destination. Or maybe they will be with you on your way or they will find a way to meet you there. But that moment you meet them, means everything. At that moment, things just make sense and you are alive. You are so alive. And in that moment you let go of the breath you’ve been holding in.”
always choose to be with someone who is emotionally intelligent. don’t get caught up in the fact that you are loved, because love comes easy. but loving someone in the way they need, and understanding why they need to be loved like that is what a relationship is about.
and i finally learned
that not everyone you loose
is a loss.
“Are we meant to be with each other? Are you the one, rather, am I the one for you, too? Sometimes, it’s black and white and I know the answer - it’s a hard yes. Other times, I question it; I ponder about the way we argue, how when it’s good, it’s really good but when it’s bad I almost believe we’re better off searching for love somewhere else. Is this what love feels like? Is it never 100% and there’s always going to be a dip, no matter how many years pass and how much we love each other? Sometimes I think I know exactly what love is, but other times, I’m constantly learning about the ebb and flow. I believe it’s going to be forever, then question if forever exists. Sometimes I am hurting, but it’s not enough for me to leave. Sometimes I love you so much, it hurts to even think about a life without you. Are we over compromising parts of ourselves, are we sacrificing too much and is it worth it? Or is that my fear talking? Am I afraid of being alone or being without you?”
